We were really excited when the opportunity to live with a Dutch family outside of Amsterdam came up. Actually, we’ve been trying to arrange a homestay since we arrived in Holland, but as you can imagine, there aren’t many families that are able to take in another family!
So why homestay? Well, I guess the obvious reason is that it is a tremendous help with learning language and culture. I like to think of it like learning to swim. You can take a class, learn the different strokes, have someone explain what water feels like-and all of these things can be helpful. But the learning goes to an entirely different level when you jump in the water! Doing a homestay is not the only way to immerse yourself in a culture (and sometimes it’s just not an option), but I definitely think it’s one of the best ways to learn about a different culture.
Of course, it’s not always easy; it requires being intentional about putting yourself in a situation where often you will be powerless or uncomfortable. But under the right circumstances it can be an incredibly rewarding experience. And that I think is the key; I don’t see it as an experience that will give me the understanding to be more effective in my ministry or work cross-culturally (though certainly that is true). Rather, I think it’s a rewarding experience in and of itself. To be accepted into a family from another culture; to live life as they do; to see the world with their cultural lens; and if they are Christians, to see how their faith takes shape in their culture-it’s an incredible experience.
And it has been for us, at least so far! More soon…